…you’d better find out what really drives you. How many times have you put a photo on the refrigerator to remind yourself that you want to lose weight? How many times have you bought a gym card that you never used? Why does work give you no satisfaction? Why are you unable to change anything? We reproach ourselves for lack of willpower or blame external circumstances. It turns out, however, that our failure to realize our dreams often results from the fact that we do not know what we want in life, what really drives or motivates us. We have some intuitions but we do not know the deep roots of our motives.